Re-kindling a friendship..?
so, ive begun hanging out with one of my "old" friends, we be extremly close, and lived together for a while..
i haven't done anything with her for about 2 years, and like i said, we're sagging out again..
the sad part is i wasn't completly truthful with her for our friendship the first time, and they are things that "pass on" into a NEW friendship (experiences and what not..)
so what should i do? i would LOVE to come clean to her, shes a wonderful friend and it seems stupid for me to continue the lies, but i'm so afraid of her not wanting to know my anymore because of the lieing i did..
and btw-knowing her she wouldn't be angry just about the things i lied about (she just wouldn't care but stern then i felt the need to stretch the truth) , she would be angry that i wasn't truthful beside her..
so what do you think i should do?
come clean? or just stop lying and not enlighten her about what i did before...
thanks!
Answers:
stop lying and not tell her what u did up to that time.... Source(s): meee
If u want to start with a fresh clean slate then u own to come clean with her. U already r concerned with the lies u told if not u would not have posted this question to all of us, so cart your chances and be completely honest so that u can have a clear head when this relationship blossoms
Leave it alone, why burden her next to your own guilty conscience? The only reason to tell her, is if she truly *NEEDS* to know for her own dutiful. Otherwise, no.
"The TRUTH SHALL SET YOU FREE!" Come verbs, include the fact that you feared she would not approve of the truth, at the time. She may appreciate it even more!! Source(s): 25 years as a US ARMY Nursse
DON'T LIE!! its really doomed to failure you should come clean and if she really like you she would forgive you. But of course she would be barmy because you didn't tell her the truth. First think if one of your other friends lied to you and they confronted you and how would you feel?
come clean
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i haven't done anything with her for about 2 years, and like i said, we're sagging out again..
the sad part is i wasn't completly truthful with her for our friendship the first time, and they are things that "pass on" into a NEW friendship (experiences and what not..)
so what should i do? i would LOVE to come clean to her, shes a wonderful friend and it seems stupid for me to continue the lies, but i'm so afraid of her not wanting to know my anymore because of the lieing i did..
and btw-knowing her she wouldn't be angry just about the things i lied about (she just wouldn't care but stern then i felt the need to stretch the truth) , she would be angry that i wasn't truthful beside her..
so what do you think i should do?
come clean? or just stop lying and not enlighten her about what i did before...
thanks!
Answers:
stop lying and not tell her what u did up to that time.... Source(s): meee
If u want to start with a fresh clean slate then u own to come clean with her. U already r concerned with the lies u told if not u would not have posted this question to all of us, so cart your chances and be completely honest so that u can have a clear head when this relationship blossoms
Leave it alone, why burden her next to your own guilty conscience? The only reason to tell her, is if she truly *NEEDS* to know for her own dutiful. Otherwise, no.
"The TRUTH SHALL SET YOU FREE!" Come verbs, include the fact that you feared she would not approve of the truth, at the time. She may appreciate it even more!! Source(s): 25 years as a US ARMY Nursse
DON'T LIE!! its really doomed to failure you should come clean and if she really like you she would forgive you. But of course she would be barmy because you didn't tell her the truth. First think if one of your other friends lied to you and they confronted you and how would you feel?
come clean
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