Should I re-kindle beside the ex-husband?
My ex-husband was abusive and mean, but have gotten much better (but still not great). We have a toddler son and have gotten back into a relationship. I don't know if I still love him, but I love the home we have created. Our son loves having us all together as a jubilant family again.
Should I continue our relationship or find a way to cut things sour?
If the answer id to cut things off, how?
Answers:
yes because he was faithful.. && if he fail this then too bad he can only see his child.
It seems like you want to get rear for the family. Not a good idea. He is on honourable behavior and still not that great. You have to love him first and then the family, not the family unit first. I am sure it was no walk at the beach getting away from him the first time. Next time will be a nightmare. You must be young at heart since you have all these years to throw away, including your child's. Look at the increased pain he will suffer losing his Dad again. As you can see I'm not contained by favor based on your comments. However, there is a way. Give it 6 to 8 months of counseling together and individually while living separately to see if he is serious. I will bet you he will sidestep that requirement and that's the prevalent one needed. Would you start a relationship with a perfect stranger today where you have to start out in counseling? I hope not. Get some personal counseling first and go from there. You enjoy to provide protection for yourself and your child. So throw the bum out again. Learn to stick up for yourself. Only talk with him through attorney's.
i would not re-kindle a relationship with an offensive man. how much time has passed by? it's over. let it go. this marriage ceremony probably wont surivive a 2nd time.i know you love him, but he's abusive. and you'll constantly have to fight for your nouns in this relationship. and if things dont work out again, you're putting your son through h*ll AGAIN and for what. you'r enot going to get the happy inherited. it doesnt exsist with abusive man. and he might just be nice to appease you so you will come final and once you're back, BOOM, he's the same jerk and you're rear legs under his control AGAIN. move on.....let it step. forever.
doesnt mean he cant spend time with his son ALONE, without you in that. let him work on his relationship with his son. he might just be doing to this to achieve you back and as soon as you say no to him, he might stop seeing his son or become abusive again.
i can forgive harm, but i can't forget it. i would move forward with my life and learn from my unpromising expereinces, not REPEAT them.
Your son is well settled with you right? Here your life is at stake and through what the bastard made you run through and your mental anguish don't be stupid to fall for the psychopath once more. Let him visit your child but avoid any temptations as what happen in the past was the right step you took afterwards and now whatever happens don't trip up for the dangling carrot!! Go along with your life so that he sees agonizingly what a treasure you are. hope this helps... Source(s): experience of my own daughter
If you are unsure of the relationship from a being surrounded by love standpoint, it is never good to stay together just for your kid. The reason person is that you will raise him in an unloving environment. It's almost like have roommates raise a kid together with no connection. And surrounded by the years while you are raising the child, unhappy, you will never truly grow under your husband's wing. Become the person you want to be.
There is help out there if you are alarmed of making it on your own. Go to Child Care Connections for daycare help, contact welfare for temporary food help, Medical Card for doctor wants for you and your son, and go apply for schooling. You can and will succeed.
If he was abusive and connote, then it means he wants the control. That is no channel to live. Wish you the best.
If you own seen him improving, give it a shot. You can other end it if you cannot take living with him any more, but when you are trying, you own to keep a positive attitude.
Don't be with him for your son. If you are not in love your ex, don't pursue any further. You will not be jovial. Just keep it as is. Let your ex know that you don't want to be with him, but you appreciate the time you all spend together as a family connections. Nothing hard to understand about that.
Continue the relationship him and your son but
NOT,
you and Ex.
if u thinking about ur son then yes if roughly u then no
the simply way to know if you should get back together, is to know if he really have changed. pray about it
I would try counseling first and then see if you can build on a relationship. I'd definitely pinch things slow because if you move too fast you may ruin your chances of having that thrilled family you want for your child.
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Should I continue our relationship or find a way to cut things sour?
If the answer id to cut things off, how?
Answers:
yes because he was faithful.. && if he fail this then too bad he can only see his child.
It seems like you want to get rear for the family. Not a good idea. He is on honourable behavior and still not that great. You have to love him first and then the family, not the family unit first. I am sure it was no walk at the beach getting away from him the first time. Next time will be a nightmare. You must be young at heart since you have all these years to throw away, including your child's. Look at the increased pain he will suffer losing his Dad again. As you can see I'm not contained by favor based on your comments. However, there is a way. Give it 6 to 8 months of counseling together and individually while living separately to see if he is serious. I will bet you he will sidestep that requirement and that's the prevalent one needed. Would you start a relationship with a perfect stranger today where you have to start out in counseling? I hope not. Get some personal counseling first and go from there. You enjoy to provide protection for yourself and your child. So throw the bum out again. Learn to stick up for yourself. Only talk with him through attorney's.
i would not re-kindle a relationship with an offensive man. how much time has passed by? it's over. let it go. this marriage ceremony probably wont surivive a 2nd time.i know you love him, but he's abusive. and you'll constantly have to fight for your nouns in this relationship. and if things dont work out again, you're putting your son through h*ll AGAIN and for what. you'r enot going to get the happy inherited. it doesnt exsist with abusive man. and he might just be nice to appease you so you will come final and once you're back, BOOM, he's the same jerk and you're rear legs under his control AGAIN. move on.....let it step. forever.
doesnt mean he cant spend time with his son ALONE, without you in that. let him work on his relationship with his son. he might just be doing to this to achieve you back and as soon as you say no to him, he might stop seeing his son or become abusive again.
i can forgive harm, but i can't forget it. i would move forward with my life and learn from my unpromising expereinces, not REPEAT them.
Your son is well settled with you right? Here your life is at stake and through what the bastard made you run through and your mental anguish don't be stupid to fall for the psychopath once more. Let him visit your child but avoid any temptations as what happen in the past was the right step you took afterwards and now whatever happens don't trip up for the dangling carrot!! Go along with your life so that he sees agonizingly what a treasure you are. hope this helps... Source(s): experience of my own daughter
If you are unsure of the relationship from a being surrounded by love standpoint, it is never good to stay together just for your kid. The reason person is that you will raise him in an unloving environment. It's almost like have roommates raise a kid together with no connection. And surrounded by the years while you are raising the child, unhappy, you will never truly grow under your husband's wing. Become the person you want to be.
There is help out there if you are alarmed of making it on your own. Go to Child Care Connections for daycare help, contact welfare for temporary food help, Medical Card for doctor wants for you and your son, and go apply for schooling. You can and will succeed.
If he was abusive and connote, then it means he wants the control. That is no channel to live. Wish you the best.
If you own seen him improving, give it a shot. You can other end it if you cannot take living with him any more, but when you are trying, you own to keep a positive attitude.
Don't be with him for your son. If you are not in love your ex, don't pursue any further. You will not be jovial. Just keep it as is. Let your ex know that you don't want to be with him, but you appreciate the time you all spend together as a family connections. Nothing hard to understand about that.
Continue the relationship him and your son but
NOT,
you and Ex.
if u thinking about ur son then yes if roughly u then no
the simply way to know if you should get back together, is to know if he really have changed. pray about it
I would try counseling first and then see if you can build on a relationship. I'd definitely pinch things slow because if you move too fast you may ruin your chances of having that thrilled family you want for your child.
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